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The happiness of the bee and the dolphin is to exist. For man it is to know that and to wonder at it.

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Why Would a Man Look Deep Into Your Eyes While Talking With You?

April 2nd, 2012 ~ Est. reading time: 2 mins, 1 sec

Can you think why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you?

Tell me, why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you? Maybe it’s a function of age, but I suspect the way you answer depends on two things:

  1. How old you are, and
  2. Your personal experience.

For some, merely considering why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you connotes threat. Surely he wants to take advantage of you. As a woman, you will have had your share of being “hit on” so you know what to be wary about.

Then again, if the certain encounter is one where there is an air of romance, then it’s entirely different, isn’t it? Wondering why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you leads you to conclude that maybe, just maybe, he is smitten by you. Well, if he is nice, then perhaps that’s exactly what you’d like to think.

All of this mind reading is a fascinating thing. We each are incredibly attuned to faces, expressions, and especially: eyes. One look says it all. Even a glimpse of a glance is enough to tell you what you suspect. It’s amazing. So the question, “Precisely why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you?” becomes a hot topic. Hold your gaze into someone’s eyes and the effect is profound. That’s how sensitive we are to each other’s attentions.

Mind you, it is possible to get it all terribly wrong. He might just be the staring type. Or perhaps he’s short sited, or you remind him of his sister!

Whatever the case, we are vulnerable to attention that’s good and bad. Fantastic when it’s someone lovely and we are free to start a new relationship. Rather disastrous if there’s a whiff of manipulation, or disrespect for your existing relationship. Life and love needs more than a look. Lasting love is built on respect, shared beliefs, and the passion of commitment. But you already know all that. Crowded as the world is with relationships that started without these qualities, it’s also full of people hurting from unhealthy and broken relationships.

Why would a man look deep into your eyes while talking with you? Probably because he likes you, or something about you. If he finds you attractive it’s an testing step. But don’t for a moment think it gauges anything but desire. Find out more if you’re free. Or simply smile, like you would at a relative, if you’re not. Meeting a gaze with strength and a sense of presence says, “Glad you like me. But there’s more to loving than a look.” Men need to know, love doesn’t just desire; it admires.

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